My name is Tony. I am widowed and live alone in Clacton in Essex, just me and my dog. I am looking for some fun in my life preferably of the sexual kind I want to meet a friend with benefits for regular weekend hookups. I want to meet a lady who is independent and has a life of her own, but would also like to spend some time with a reasonably intelligent man who can hold a conversation on most things. I am not interested in endless chatting and will not provide entertainment by talking dirty to frustrated women who have no intention of meeting. I enjoy all the usual things cinema, theatre, music (jazz, rock, folk, classical , etc.), eating out and even cosy nights in.

My Ideal Person Someone who is looking for a little fun in life both in and out of bed