Non-negotiable: DDF, using protection. You must willing to meet me and my husband in per so we can establish a comfort level. Be ready to pace yourself, and to WAIT to be invited - no random hookups. Nonsexual affection makes me feel sexier. I am thoroughly sexually satisfied with my marriage, but my husband and I are adventurous and have had some fun fooling around individually and together with one another's approval. I haven't been with another woman in ten years, and haven't seen a cock over nine inches in fif - both would be welcome, but neither is mandatory!