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Taking "no" for an answer: A How-To Guide 7/15/2015
There are many, many people who breach our inboxes everyday,
sending all sorts of stuff.
First of all, I'll respond to a message with just "hi",
before responding to someone saying what they want to do
to me. It's called respect. If I turn you down-take
it the first time. Don't try to keep getting me to say
yes. I've made my mind up. It's not going to get
changed. So please, when I deny ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
16 Votes
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Say No Gracefully 6/21/2015
If something is not working out, just let the other person
know as soon as possible. When you tell them, be as gracious as possible. Thank then for what they have done for you in the past and/or
pay them a compliment. Then, gently let them know that things
are not working out, why they are not working out, and then
tell them that things must end. When you tell them the reasons,
try not to blame ...
5 Comments, 41 Views,
12 Votes
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Women don't have a patent on preference 6/1/2015
There's no doubt that the man to woman ratio on this
site is 500/20. That means a man has a 4% chance of actually
getting as much attention as a woman on here. This doesn't
include couple status. The women seem to be the smart ones
on here. The ones worth talking to are selective, as a man
should be. Some people just don't get it though. All
I can do is shake my head when I hear a woman talk ...
7 Comments, 70 Views,
9 Votes
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But they won't go away! 5/16/2015
I have met a few guys on this site. I usually message back
and forth, then either make a decision whether I want to
continue on or cut the ties. Behavior that is persistent,
constantly messaging me on my phone while I'm asleep
or at work...ugh! This is why when I get messages from guys
I know there is not a chance in hell we will have any chemistry,
I don't respond. I also have a message that ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
17 Votes
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no thanks 5/15/2015
no thanks
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2 Votes
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I agree with something SensuousShades said..... 5/1/2015
If I am approached in a polite respectful manner....I will
likely respond in the same way. You get what you give.
If you repeatedly email me "hey lets fuck",
"me in ur pussy" Or "come suck my cock"...
You will get nothing from me. Honestly, I don't "owe"
anyone anything if I don't even know them. That's
part of the territory in this community. If you don't
get a response......don't be ...
6 Comments, 62 Views,
19 Votes
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30 pts post(ignore) 4/5/2015
How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
2 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
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I suppose 3/18/2015
The way respond to unwanted emails or IMs is based on the
request we've received. If the person messaging us
is polite we'll respond with "thank you for your
interested, but you aren't what we're looking
for."
Sometimes people say things that we can't actually
respond to so we leave those messages unanswered. Messages
like "Hi, I want to cum on your face" don't
get responses.
4 Comments, 68 Views,
17 Votes
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At least say No! 3/13/2015
Just wish if you contact someone they would say No! Saying
nothing is worse.
9 Comments, 105 Views,
15 Votes
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How to let down some unwanted suitor. 3/4/2015
Ever have this happen to you.. You check out your e-mail
and find someone from the same sex hitting on you, or a sexually
unattractive member wanting you to have an encounter with
them. Face it the world is a crap-shoot. That's the
adventure called: romance. How to not to seem rude and decline
the offer. Just say in a polite manner, " I'm flattered that you have found me attractive, but I'm
not ...
10 Comments, 86 Views,
11 Votes
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It's funny. 3/2/2015
I always appreciate it when someone says no thank you politely.
I don't mind if they say "no interest".
At least you know, there is nothing there. I do find it interesting
that some people, just stop talking with you. You never
know if they got cut off, or are not interested. So please,
be blunt and say one thing or another, don't just go
silent.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
8 Votes
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Mean People Suck 3/1/2015
I've been here for while. I've been successful.
I had a lot of fun, and I've met some very special ladies.
I think about each one as a bottle of wine, the bottle that
I shared with them: Chardonnay, Riesling, a particularly
good vintage of South African Wine, and yes even a Merlot.
I've also met some real jerks, at least on line.
I have sent at least 200 emails to which I received no ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
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Harder for men or women? 1/29/2015
Who has the harder time saying no, men or women?
5 Comments, 46 Views,
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IM 1/28/2015
i am a charming guy trying to make conversation and too many
times i get someone just suddenly end an IM conversation.
isn't there a more polite way to say we should end this?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
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This has probably has been discussed alot but. 12/17/2014
How do you best say your not interested in another couple
in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being
honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases
are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....
1 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
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I think this might mess our friendship up 11/18/2014
Tell them that there a really great person but our friendship
means more to me then just a hook up
1 Comments, 61 Views,
6 Votes
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Saying No 11/13/2014
How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is
incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?
10 Comments, 105 Views,
12 Votes
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Too much 11/12/2014
Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles
that we're not interested in.
4 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
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why bother 11/11/2014
I read a few comments about women politely declining men's
advances here on My Dating Friend. Find Singles Looking For Hot Fun Tonight! Get Your Free Account Signup Now!. After seeing some responses posted
on Facebook and other sites, I'm not surprised women
say nothing when approached - I've seen a LOT of nasty
responses guys have made to a simple, "no".
Things like, "fuck you, you fat cunt"; "you're
ugly anyway"; "I'm too good for you anyway";
"why the fuck are you on here ...
12 Comments, 126 Views,
14 Votes
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No way 11/9/2014
We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before
we block them.
5 Comments, 58 Views,
11 Votes
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Using IM 11/8/2014
I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for
chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?
5 Comments, 108 Views,
9 Votes
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Testimonials 11/7/2014
Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given
you a testimonial?
6 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
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To thank or not to thank 11/6/2014
I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all
it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every
jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks
I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM
is working.
6 Comments, 63 Views,
18 Votes
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No 10/31/2014
Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially
with single guys.
3 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
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Blocked!!! 10/21/2014
There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these
guys, just block them period.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
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No thanks. 10/15/2014
Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit
repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys?
We have jobs we don't need another one answering all
the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense
and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.
12 Comments, 77 Views,
19 Votes
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The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies 10/14/2014
Like anyone who has been on My Dating Friend. Find Singles Looking For Hot Fun Tonight! Get Your Free Account Signup Now! for any length of time and
has tried to make contact with someone, I have received
my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies.
I have been told however, that my response to those "No
Thanks" replies is quite different than what most
women receive from those kinds of replies.
I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No
Thanks". I do not whine or ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
12 Votes
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Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining 10/11/2014
What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back
even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will
being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer
to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash
of a "sore loser" along with it?
5 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
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Since you asked... 9/30/2014
As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks"
page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page
were all regarding the fact that women here often don't
give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed.
I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for
not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in
the future "why are women so rude" questions,
but here goes ...
8 Comments, 113 Views,
18 Votes
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Why does this seem to be so difficult.... 9/21/2014
I can understand that a huge amount of requests are posted
on this site especially in the chat rooms & IM, but so
many people just don't have the time to reply with a
polite "No Thanks", it's almost like everybody
is in such a rush or seem to hold themselves in such a high
esteem that it's below them to do so (you know who you
are people, admit it). I was always brought up to be polite and it's ...
7 Comments, 84 Views,
12 Votes
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